I am about as unsympathetic to proposed changes to the English language for reasons of political correctness as you can imagine, and I will never support the "xe" nonsense proposed by some social-engineering whackos. That said, I see the issue raised by Lizzy as one of an entirely different character; it is one of basic courtesy. The problem here is one of uniform computer programming, and the issue is easily resolved with better programming. It would be relatively easy to add a layer of programming that recognizes all players as male or female, based on the players having ticked a gender box (please, let's just keep it to two genders: male or female) on their player profile. All generic, automatically generated messages could then be tailored with the appropriate gender-specific pronouns in English or any other language. This is not exactly rocket surgery, as it is done every day in a variety of business and social contexts across a wide variety of software platforms.
This may not be the highest priority for the game developers, but it should be added to their to-do list to be addressed in the future.
This may not be the highest priority for the game developers, but it should be added to their to-do list to be addressed in the future.