Thanks guys. I knew about the standard way of getting relationship upgrades with AI (that's how I got them in the first place :)). Was hoping for a "quick fix". I figured I was just hosed on all fronts here. Thanks again.
I understand how the reset caused wars and other issues but have 2 questions: 1.How do I "manually reset" the AI? I had RoW with most of the AI countries, not now. One I had to actually eliminate because we went to war unintentionally. 2. What recourse do I have if another player has benefited from the reset (he was at war with 5 countries, now only 1) .